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sathi akter
Aug 03, 2022
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Who are relatively indifferent to other people's evaluation and have good social skills should not have many communication problems. On the contrary, most people like me are often troubled by "caring about other people's feelings", and they have to pay a lot of attention to how to speak and do things so as not to offend people. However, although I would like to avoid offense, my emotional boundaries are very clear, and I will hardly affect my mood because of "other people's affairs". Before these friends learn to set bulk sms service internal boundaries, they usually create explicit behavioral boundaries in order to avoid discomfort, that is, direct defensiveness and not have emotional interactions with others. They are emotional people when alone, but may appear numb or alienated in relationships. The reflex action of self-protection often affects deep communication, because deep communication mostly involves personal privacy and emotional talk, which is the link they cannot afford. The strengthening of social skills is like their compensatory skills, maintaining warm interpersonal relationships for them, so on the surface it is difficult for us to find that they have troubles in emotional communication. Penny felt that this state of being emotionally isolated from others has long hindered her from finding a soulmate and love. Recently, she began to slowly practice "setting emotional boundaries", so she came to discuss it with me. I coordinated with her and asked her to practice with me how to accept and confide on an adaptable scale, based on the trust we have shared over the years. The simple way is that I will moderately control the amount of emotion thrown out when I chat with her about private matters, and I will talk more next time after confirming that the other party can accept it, and the two will discuss the emotional threshold she can tolerate together. arrow_forward_iosunderstand more Powered by GliaStudio If not, try to figure out what kind of description is stressing her out,
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